I can understand how you feel. My daughter Sammie has crazy knots in her hair everymorning, yet her twin has super smooth hair (and they have the same hair once it’s brushed-go figure!). However, we swear by LaCoupe’s Curls line to smooth out both our morning frizzies. It’s not that I want the curls necessarily, but it does a fab job of smoothing out her hair and leaving it kind of flippy. Every morning is frustrating because she cries out because of her sensitive scalp being pulled because of the knots-this gives me sanity and gives her cute hair!